Northern Ireland · Humanists UK accredited

Thoughtfully written. Beautifully delivered. Completely about you.

Non religious ceremonies created around your story

Simply put: it is the wedding you actually want, not the one you feel you should have. Fun, personal, and entirely about you as a couple.

Celebrating all love · warm, supportive & fun

Accredited Humanists UK celebrant, ceremonies across Northern Ireland

Humanists UK accredited
No copy and paste scripts
Completely bespoke
Northern Ireland wide
“My dream is simple: to give others the ceremony I had filled with love, laughter, meaning, and memories that last forever.”
— Anthony, The Bespoke Humanist

Our services

Humanist wedding packages and a ceremony built entirely around your wishes

Vow Renewal

  • A fresh chapter: Celebrating life challenges or health hurdles
  • Anniversary Milestones
  • The wedding you never had: Celebrate with your loved ones who could not attend your wedding (Children, Grandchildren or close friends)
  • The vows: Reaffirm your original vows or write new promises tailored to who you are today.
  • Because every couples story and celebration is unique, pricing is tailored to your specific plans

CROÍA

£620

  • Couples questionnaire
  • Personal consultation
  • One symbolic gesture
  • Rehearsal
  • One reading
  • Wedding coordination
  • Legal documentation support

AMOUR

£710

Everything in CROÍA, plus:

  • Two symbolic gestures
  • Two readings
  • Reading material provided
  • Printed ceremony script
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How we work

From first hello to saying “I do” a clear, friendly process with no pressure

1

Get in touch

Reach out to me to check availability and start the conversation. No pressure just a friendly chat.

2

The vibe check

We will set up an online or in-person meeting. Hot drink, cold drink, whatever suits you to iron out the details and answer your questions.

3

Say we DO!

If you leave thinking “this is the energy we need!” then drop me a message. Once that is sorted, you are in the diary.

4

Your ceremony

I shape the tone, moments, and words that matter so your day feels effortless and unforgettable long after.

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What is a humanist wedding?

Whether you want vows on a mountaintop, a handfasting, or your dog as ring bearer I will make it happen

Your story first

No rigid template. The ceremony order is built entirely around your wishes.

Meaning & laughter

My dream is to give others the unforgettable ceremony that I had filled with love, laughter, and memories that last forever.

Above & beyond

Fully committed to every couple, making sure your day feels personal and unmistakably you.

Celebrating all love

Humanism celebrates what unites us and nothing unites us quite like love.

About Anthony

I am Anthony, a father of two boys, a TV binge watcher (particularly Fr. Ted and Dexter), a podcast enthusiast, and a lifelong wrestling fan.

After having my own humanist wedding I decided to trade PowerPoints for promises and presentations for pronouncements.

I do not do copy and paste scripts; instead, I take the time to get to know you, learn your inside jokes, and understand what makes your relationship unique.

I am a Wedding Celebrant accredited by Humanists UK. As a bespoke Humanist celebrant, my goal is to ensure your ceremony is a perfect reflection of your personalities.

Working with you

From the vibe check to “I do” warm, supportive, and fun every step of the way

Anthony Sergeant

Your Humanists UK accredited celebrant, crafting ceremonies that reflect who you really are.

Personal consultation

Questionnaires, meetings, and rehearsals so you feel confident and excited on the day.

Symbolic moments

Handfasting, readings, and gestures woven into a ceremony that feels natural, not scripted.

Celebrating all love

Your wedding should be an unapologetic celebration of exactly who you are

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The wedding you actually want

A ceremony that puts your unique love story at the heart of the day, mountaintop, beach, back garden, or grand venue.

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Unique touches welcome

Handfasting, symbolic gestures, readings, and moments that involve your guests and reflect your personalities.

CROÍAAMOUR

Clear packages

Choose CROÍA or AMOUR for consultation, coordination, legal documentation support, and everything you need for the big day.

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Let’s plan something unforgettable

If you are ready to chat, check availability, or just ask a few questions, you are very welcome. It would be my privilege to help tell your story.

Not sure if we are a match? Take the vibe quiz

Eight quick questions. No wrong answers. See if my style fits the ceremony you are dreaming of.

  • Takes about two minutes
  • Instant result on the page
  • Email me straight from your result
Take the vibe quiz
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What couples are saying

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Location

I proudly conduct ceremonies across Northern Ireland

Get in touch

Ready to chat, check availability, or ask a few questions? You are very welcome.

Call Anthony

Friendly chat, no pressure

07533 178188

Email

Planning your wedding

bespokehumanist@gmail.com

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